Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Feelings Towards Pregnancy Announcements

There is no better news than to hear a loved one, a family member, or friends announce their pregnancy.  Yet, it can also be the most painful for someone who is dealing with infertility, a sudden miscarriage, or in the middle of a waiting period.
Currently, we have 8 friends and family members announce their pregnancies within this last month.  While it could be a really tough, trying, and unhappy time, we have chosen to maintain pure joy for the little lives being blessed to this world.  Why would we be upset?  Because it isn't our turn?  How childish does that sound?!  Why would be be mad that a dear one has been given the gift of life either physically or through adoption?  Would we want them to be mad at us when it's our turn?  When we've been blessed?  I don't think so.  Plus, it has always been a belief of mine that those small little people within the womb can feel the love or disappointment of their arrival and why would you not want anything else but to send love love and light?  So, let's start celebrating the joys along with our friends and family members.  One day we will be in the same position....

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