Friday, February 21, 2014

This Is Not The End

Up until this moment, my adult life has seemed like an open book-I have two blogs and host four Facebook pages for heavens sake!  Everyone knows our business.  However, I have learned that sharing the choices you make in life comes with harsh criticism and judgement most of the time.  Throughout this blog I have felt a shift in relationships, wondered how long I can keep this up, bawled my head off and then smiled through the tears.  I've loved and I've lost and I've found my voice.

Which is why after debating whether or not to make this public, we have decided to continue sharing our story in hopes to just let people know their not alone in their process and give us a record of all the crazy we've endured during the infertility process.  Sometime this Spring-I still want to keep some stuff private-we will be seeing a fertility specialist.  It has taken us 8 years to get to this point.  We've gone through surgeries, medication trials, "resting," and enough waiting to last a lifetime. There have been so many conversations weighing the pros and cons about starting this chapter and then the everyday going-ons in life that have gotten in the way. 

So, we've weighed and measured and come to this chapter.  How we write it out is a total mystery and we hope you will read along because this is NOT the end of our story!

Monday, February 3, 2014

Your Journey

There isn't a day that goes by that someone does not make a comment about the "journey" we are on.  Most of the time they are telling us what they would do if they were in our situation and yet, unless they've been in this situation, they have nothing to say that will make sense at this time.  Which is why I am reminded that God saw fit to put my husband and I together to face this matter-no one else. It is just the two of us writing our story the best way we see fit, waiting and praying with every breathe.~K